In our present technological age, “information” and content have never been more ubiquitous. I use air quotes around information because with advancements in technology and a rapidly-digitized world, the information being disseminated has become increasingly erroneous, void of necessary details, and half baked. Attention spans are dwindling almost as fast as feeds are able to refresh with a batch of new headlines. As such, outlets and social media have responded to this crisis by making content shorter, more digestible, and overall, less informative. Furthermore, most people are receiving their news from platforms like Twitter and TikTok, applications where everyone has an opinion, though few have credentials. It is easier to scroll and trust five second clips rather than doing research on a topic, a trend, or the newest fad, so we have created a society dependent on the technology which many people report makes them less happy. Personally, I have never met anyone who wishes they had more screen time or thought social media was a truly positive force.
It is no coincidence that as reported usage of social media has increased, mental health has become a more widely discussed topic. People feel more anxious, sad, and lost in a world that claims greater connectivity with each new app. In thinking about how our connectivity can disconnect us from ourselves and God, I was reminded of a verse I believe speaks volumes to a lost generation and echoes the resounding comfort found when we depend wholly on Him:
Therefore I say to you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink; nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food and the body more than clothing? Look at the birds of the air, for they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? Which of you by worrying can add one cubit to his stature? (Matthew 6:25-27)
In the realm of social media, there exists a pervasive illusion of perfection. Platforms are flooded with curated snapshots of seemingly flawless lives, fostering unrealistic expectations that contribute to a sense of inadequacy. However, these verses from Matthew implore believers to recognize the value inherent in their existence, irrespective of societal standards. Jesus’ words serve as a timeless reminder that life extends beyond material pursuits and external validations. There is a yearning for happiness that is not being satiated through our phones. Social media has become a site for comparative thinking, an insulated echo chamber wherein people crave the affirmation of others. Jesus tells us to trust God for what we need, that He has taken away our burden of anxieties. What we eat and drink, the brands we wear, the cars we drive, and the images we share online are of no consequence to a Father who knows no favorites.
As Christians, we are reminded that genuine peace is not found in the constant pursuit of digital affirmations but in disconnecting from the virtual world and seeking solace in the presence of God. The ceaseless pace of social media can pull us away from moments of prayer, meditation, and reflection, hindering our ability to find true rest in Christ.
Some things that have helped me unplug:
- Find 10 minutes to write everyday to respond to God’s word—whether it is a journal, guided devotional, or comments in your bible’s margins.
- Take a weeklong break from your top three most used apps (time limits never work).
- Seek a new outlet to connect with God you don’t already use: a Christian podcast, a new sermon series on YouTube
- Make a disconnection plan with a friend
We do not depend on God the way He intends us to. We are impatient and demand a quick response that agrees with the fast-paced nature of our lives. Why is God not answering my prayer, alleviating my burden, or speaking back when I want Him to? I don’t know if this is a crisis of outright doubt as much as it is our expectation for God to conform to and change with the times. My articles have gotten shorter, my answers are more readily available, my friends are more aware of what I am doing at all times. So why does God not follow suit and adapt like an app on our phones? I believe breaks from the virtual world are the most renewing times of growth spent with God. Believers can refocus their energy on cultivating a deeper connection with their faith, and ultimately themselves as ambassadors of God’s grace.
“I don’t know if this is a crisis of outright doubt as much as it is our expectation for God to conform to and change with the times.” This was so good, Tristan. So often I find myself forgetting that God says “I am the Lord, I change not.” (Malachi 3:6). That should be more comforting, knowing that He is solid and steady for us.
Thank you for reminding us of Malachi 3:6. Amen!
Excellent post. I’m thankful for the technology but I have to work diligently to not allow it to replace my focus on God or intrude in my time with the Lord.
We must keep our fortresses solid….and not get lured into the wide path of life.
I am grateful how technology allows us to share testimonies of faith across the world instantly. We no longer have to wait for something to travel in the mail or be printed and distributed. For example, we can start a blog site and quickly share links to it on social media! 😀
Well said! This is thought provoking and a bit convicting. At times, I find myself a slave to my phone or social media. Yet, I know “if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” John 8:36. In addition, as it relates to your music passion, the current “hits” tend to be those that succinctly fit into a sound bite or 30 second TikTok video. I much prefer when true stories were shared in lyrics. I guess, those were the good ole days!
You bring up some very good points in this post, Tristan. I, too, was challenged by the thought of “expecting God to conform to and change with the times.” I am often disappointed when God doesn’t answer me when or how I want Him to. This was a good reminder that He doesn’t try to fit in with our culture.